Have you ever thought about telling the women you are with the full truth about why men cheat? What is so difficult for you in telling the truth, that you just like a variety of different women? I realize your fear in not wanting to destroy your marriage but there are more apprehensions than that? What if you had an open minded wife but you just didn't realize it? I have read on the answers forum over and over again about these women that have been cheated on multiple times. I would think that would be telling them something. My thought is that if women have the truth about cheating menthat understanding of men and their genetics, then they will feel more secure in their marriage. Women internalize a cheating man and think he is out looking for someone to replace her if he is having sex with another woman; when he is really just out appeasing his genetic beast. Why not tell your wife and reassure her you are not leaving? Women have to smarten up to, especially the other women. He is not leaving his wife!
Yes, I think men do have this "genetic beast" you are talking about. But some men can control it better than other men. Telling ththe truth about cheating mene true is always a good thing.
Personally, I would never cheat, and I consider the genetics stuff to be just an excuse. There are lots of things in nature that we cannot control, but I think in this case we do have control over it.
The genetic beast theory lets people off the hook. The difference between man and beast is the ability to make choice. Men choose to cheat for a number of reasons. Animal instinct is not really one of them.
end of the telling the truth is being nailed on the nearest beam.
i hope this answer is open-minded enough for all cheaters.
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